Showing posts with label The Perfect Solution. Show all posts
Showing posts with label The Perfect Solution. Show all posts
I wrote this open letter titled From The View Of A Child. You should read this.
Dear Caregiver,
Spring is here and Summer won't be far behind and I know that you will be planning outdoor activities that will take us away from the childcare center or home.
I have been waiting in trepidation for these events throughout the entire cold, wet winter. I have heard many of my friends died because of a lack in observation in childcare center this past summer.
Some even died because their parents forgot them in the car! In the hot car! I don’t want to be like them. I am wondering if you will be aware of me.
- Will you remember to buckle me in my car seat or remind me to buckle my seat belt?
- Will you remember I am in the car or van and to count heads before you lock up and go about your day?
- Will you remember that I am not a bag of groceries that you can leave sit in the car while you make a ‘quick’ trip in the store, post office, gas station? If I don’t behave as you wish, show me the correct way. If you think it is easier to run in and leave me in the car, ask yourself if it would be easier to leave me in a coffin?
I don’t want to be like my friends so I am asking you to make sure the air conditioner is working. You do know children get hot faster and dehydrate quicker than adults, don't you? Check the vans and cars before you lock them to make sure I am out.
Don’t leave me for even a minute. If you don’t have my hand or haven’t kissed my face, you have forgotten me.
Parents I wrote an article CHECK YOUR DAYCARE asking if you knew who was caring for your child, do you know yet?
About the Author: Ey Wade considers herself to be a caged in frustrated author of thought provoking, mind bending eBooks, an occasional step-in parent, a fountain of knowledge, and ready to share. She is the author of The Perfect Solution the story of a parent’s worse nightmare. A three year old is mistakenly given to a stalker by his preschool-teacher.
Saving Children-Check Your Backseat. Time for a Repost #parenting #homeschooling #heat #thingslegendsaremadeof
cars +
children +
death +
Ey Wade +
Natural Parent +
The Perfect Solution
I wrote this open letter titled From The View Of A Child. You should read this.
Dear Caregiver,
Spring is here and Summer won't be far behind and I know that you will be planning outdoor activities that will take us away from the childcare center or home. I have been waiting in trepidation for these events throughout the entire cold, wet winter. I have heard many of my friends died because of a lack in observation in childcare center this past summer.
Some even died because their parents forgot them in the car! In the hot car! I don’t want to be like them. I am wondering if you will be aware of me.
- Will you remember to buckle me in my car seat or remind me to buckle my seat belt?
- Will you remember I am in the car or van and to count heads before you lock up and go about your day?
- Will you remember that I am not a bag of groceries that you can leave sit in the car while you make a ‘quick’ trip in the store, post office, gas station? If I don’t behave as you wish, show me the correct way. If you think it is easier to run in and leave me in the car, ask yourself if it would be easier to leave me in a coffin?
I don’t want to be like my friends so I am asking you to make sure the air conditioner is working. You do know children get hot faster and dehydrate quicker than adults, don't you? Check the vans and cars before you lock them to make sure I am out.
Don’t leave me for even a minute. If you don’t have my hand or haven’t kissed my face, you have forgotten me.
Parents I wrote an article CHECK YOUR DAYCARE asking if you knew who was caring for your child, do you know yet?
About the Author: Ey Wade considers herself to be a caged in frustrated author of thought provoking, mind bending eBooks, an occasional step-in parent, a fountain of knowledge, and ready to share. She is the author of The Perfect Solution the story of a parent’s worse nightmare. A three year old is mistakenly given to a stalker by his preschool-teacher.
Excerpt-D.N.A.
"I'm sorry for what you're going through but you’re not going to drag my child into it. My only concern is him. I have known you for years and you're stronger than you think and you'll be okay. Giant has been through enough in his life and I will do anything I feel necessary to keep him happy, even If it makes him miserable. Stay away from him, Debney."
"Oh my God, You're so callous. You talk as if I planned everything. Do you really think I’m happy with the way my life is going? What’s good in it? I can’t go back to being the virgin Debney Nichole Armstrong who lived with a family and had best friends." She swiped at the tears she hadn’t realized were rolling down her cheeks and tossed her head so her hair revealed the determination in her face. "I have nothing and no one. My life has changed. I’ve changed. And I don’t know if it’s for the worse or the better, but I do know I have to live on. When School starts next week I’m determined to fulfill my educational goals, ignore all those who have imaginary issues with me and hopefully graduate before I become a mother. So if you think that means I don’t care about Giante' then believe what you want."
"I'm sure you care for him. At one time I was afraid you would entice him to marry you. If you think pushing a baby on him is the way to do it, I’m going to just tell you this. Continue living the fast life and trying to drag my child down with you and I'll make sure you will spend the rest of your days fighting for your child.”
"Are you threatening me?”
"Without a damned doubt you can believe I'm threatening the very root of your life.”
“Wow that’s what I've always liked about you Mrs. De Vries. You're always direct and straight to the point." She folded her arms across her chest. “Don’t make a mistake and think you ever knew me Mrs. De Vries. I’m not always as nice as I look. I can promise you this much, nothing between us will ever be the same. I may not be a mother yet, but I will fight for this child with as much passion as you fight for Giante’. This baby is mine and I will fight you and anyone else who tries to come between me and it."
Excerpt: THE PERFECT SOLUTION
"Step back, daddy or I'll shoot you," she ordered swinging the gun at Austin when he made as if to step between her and Catrine. "Give him here." She pointed the gun back at Brhin, "Or he dies."
"How can you do this to him?" Catrine clutched Brhin closer to her chest. "How can you scare this child like you are doing? He is trembling so hard I think his little heart will stop. Please, don't do this to him. He's been through enough today. He's tired. I somehow thought that you loved him. You went through a lot to get him."
"I love him enough not to let you have him back. I can take care of him as well as you can."
"How do you expect to do that? By running around the country forever? Because if you take my child I promise you I will hunt for him, throughout eternity."
"Don't threaten me, girl. You don't know who I am. I'll kill you right now. How are you going to hunt for him then? I can do for him as much as you can, probably even more. I have watched you two constantly. I know everything he likes and doesn't like. I know where you shop for groceries. I know the kind of things Brhin can talk you into buying and the things you never give a second thought. Do you realize how much that child wanted that remote control car you wouldn't buy him?"
Catrine looked at Brhin in surprise when his head popped up and turned to look back at Mona.
"Well, I knew." Mona thumped her chest with her free hand smugly. "And I bought it for him." She announced triumphantly.
"I didn't buy him the car because I don't give him everything that he wants. I am his mother not his friend." Catrine stated deliberately bursting Mona's bubble of superiority.
"Do you think you can raise a child by giving him only what he needs?" Mona stepped forward, putting her face closer to Catrine's. "Do you think he will grow up happy? Do you think he will grow up to love you?"
"Listen, Lady." Catrine angrily stepped towards Mona until they were standing forehead to chin. Catrine being the taller of the two and completely ignoring the gun held in the woman's hand continued her tirade. "Don't stand there and try to tell me how to raise my child. If you cared for him, you would not be putting him through this."
"You don't wanna be all in my face like that."
Mona picked up the gun and smacked Catrine hard on the forehead with its tip.
The sound of the thump echoing through the bones of her skull brought her back to her senses; Catrine took a couple of steps backwards. Bumping into Austin, she took a calming breath when he put his arms around her waist.
"Relax, Catrine. It won't hurt to let her talk." Austin admonished her softly.
"I'll try."
Never step between a mother and her child. #mommadontplay
abduction +
childcare +
D.N.A. +
Ey Wade +
parenting +
teen pregnancy +
The Perfect Solution
Excerpt-D.N.A.
"I'm sorry for what you're going through but you’re not going to drag my child into it. My only concern is him. I have known you for years and you're stronger than you think and you'll be okay. Giant has been through enough in his life and I will do anything I feel necessary to keep him happy, even If it makes him miserable. Stay away from him, Debney."
"Oh my God, You're so callous. You talk as if I planned everything. Do you really think I’m happy with the way my life is going? What’s good in it? I can’t go back to being the virgin Debney Nichole Armstrong who lived with a family and had best friends." She swiped at the tears she hadn’t realized were rolling down her cheeks and tossed her head so her hair revealed the determination in her face. "I have nothing and no one. My life has changed. I’ve changed. And I don’t know if it’s for the worse or the better, but I do know I have to live on. When School starts next week I’m determined to fulfill my educational goals, ignore all those who have imaginary issues with me and hopefully graduate before I become a mother. So if you think that means I don’t care about Giante' then believe what you want."
"I'm sure you care for him. At one time I was afraid you would entice him to marry you. If you think pushing a baby on him is the way to do it, I’m going to just tell you this. Continue living the fast life and trying to drag my child down with you and I'll make sure you will spend the rest of your days fighting for your child.”
"Are you threatening me?”
"Without a damned doubt you can believe I'm threatening the very root of your life.”
“Wow that’s what I've always liked about you Mrs. De Vries. You're always direct and straight to the point." She folded her arms across her chest. “Don’t make a mistake and think you ever knew me Mrs. De Vries. I’m not always as nice as I look. I can promise you this much, nothing between us will ever be the same. I may not be a mother yet, but I will fight for this child with as much passion as you fight for Giante’. This baby is mine and I will fight you and anyone else who tries to come between me and it."
Excerpt: THE PERFECT SOLUTION
"Step back, daddy or I'll shoot you," she ordered swinging the gun at Austin when he made as if to step between her and Catrine. "Give him here." She pointed the gun back at Brhin, "Or he dies."
"How can you do this to him?" Catrine clutched Brhin closer to her chest. "How can you scare this child like you are doing? He is trembling so hard I think his little heart will stop. Please, don't do this to him. He's been through enough today. He's tired. I somehow thought that you loved him. You went through a lot to get him."
"I love him enough not to let you have him back. I can take care of him as well as you can."
"How do you expect to do that? By running around the country forever? Because if you take my child I promise you I will hunt for him, throughout eternity."
"Don't threaten me, girl. You don't know who I am. I'll kill you right now. How are you going to hunt for him then? I can do for him as much as you can, probably even more. I have watched you two constantly. I know everything he likes and doesn't like. I know where you shop for groceries. I know the kind of things Brhin can talk you into buying and the things you never give a second thought. Do you realize how much that child wanted that remote control car you wouldn't buy him?"
Catrine looked at Brhin in surprise when his head popped up and turned to look back at Mona.
"Well, I knew." Mona thumped her chest with her free hand smugly. "And I bought it for him." She announced triumphantly.
"I didn't buy him the car because I don't give him everything that he wants. I am his mother not his friend." Catrine stated deliberately bursting Mona's bubble of superiority.
"Do you think you can raise a child by giving him only what he needs?" Mona stepped forward, putting her face closer to Catrine's. "Do you think he will grow up happy? Do you think he will grow up to love you?"
"Listen, Lady." Catrine angrily stepped towards Mona until they were standing forehead to chin. Catrine being the taller of the two and completely ignoring the gun held in the woman's hand continued her tirade. "Don't stand there and try to tell me how to raise my child. If you cared for him, you would not be putting him through this."
"You don't wanna be all in my face like that."
Mona picked up the gun and smacked Catrine hard on the forehead with its tip.
The sound of the thump echoing through the bones of her skull brought her back to her senses; Catrine took a couple of steps backwards. Bumping into Austin, she took a calming breath when he put his arms around her waist.
"Relax, Catrine. It won't hurt to let her talk." Austin admonished her softly.
"I'll try."
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